2025 Ryder Cup: Passion Turns Toxic at Bethpage Black

2025 Ryder Cup: Passion Turns Toxic at Bethpage Black

First, let's start where we should: Congratulations to Team Europe. The golf they played at Bethpage Black was nothing short of brilliant, showing incredible resilience and skill to secure the win on American soil.

But honestly, it’s hard to talk about this Ryder Cup without immediately addressing the atmosphere. As a golf enthusiast, I live for the energy of this event, but what unfolded in the stands at Bethpage was deeply troubling. The line between passionate support and outright hostility didn't just blur—it was obliterated.

We saw it all weekend: constant jeering, players like Rory McIlroy and Shane Lowry forced to confront the crowd, and a general level of personalized vitriol that required an increased police presence. Incidents like fans throwing drinks toward McIlroy and his wife, take this behavior well beyond "rowdy" and into the realm of truly unacceptable misconduct.

Did We Go Too Far?

The Ryder Cup is golf's version of a European soccer match—loud, tribal, and intense. We expect that. But when the shouts move from "Miss it!" to insulting a player's family or appearance (although the button one was pretty funny), hasn't the sport failed?

What made the crowd behavior at Bethpage so different?

Was it the pressure of the moment, the frustration of the American team trailing badly, or an unfortunate sign of increasing aggression in all spectator sports? I keep asking myself: Why can't we be loud and passionate without being vicious?

When one of the game's greatest traditions, the simple respect for a competitor standing over a shot, is consistently ignored it doesn't hurt the European team; it hurts the sport of golf itself.

What Can Golf Do Now?

This can’t simply be waved away as "a New York crowd." As much as the organizers don’t want to admit it, it was a failure of conduct that demands a serious response from the PGA of America and Ryder Cup officials. We need to create an environment where this kind of behavior is simply impossible.

I don’t have all the answers,  I don’t think anyone does, but how can this behavior be stopped for good, so we can go back to enjoying golf? And making fun of each other respectfully?

When American players like Justin Thomas had to step in and ask for silence, it was a powerful moment for sure. Which leads to the question: Can we better empower and coordinate the teams and captains to address the crowds directly and proactively, reinforcing the message that they don't want that kind of support? Is that a viable option?

The Ryder Cup is a treasured spectacle, and its intense atmosphere is what makes it unique. But we need to find a way to preserve the passion without sacrificing our core values of respect and sportsmanship.

What are your thoughts? Was Bethpage a one-off, or is this a bigger problem for golf as a whole??

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